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I remember that I have been to Seoul with my brother. Hynix needs some exames to apply for. From basical intellengence to job interviews, Seekers who apply for Hynix have to pass the exams. = I remember traveling to Seoul with my brother. SK Hynix requires several exams during the application process, ranging from basic aptitude tests to formal job interviews.
Usually, The place to have job interviews is in Seoul. My brother is so shy guy and not active type. At his age is 24 years, He had to go to Seoul to apply for product worker in Hynix. = Usually, these interviews take place in Seoul. My brother is quite shy and not very proactive. When he was 24 years old, he had to go to Seoul to apply for a production line role at Hynix.
My parents ordered me to go to Seoul with my brother. At that time, my parents considered him as a kid. I didn't like to go to Seoul with my brother. I thouhght that he could go alone. He did know how to go there. = My parents ordered me to accompany him because they still viewed him as a child. I didn't want to go; I felt he was fully capable of traveling alone since he already knew the route.
But the way we see it, my parents were admant. You know, I got a lot of pushback when I pitched it form them. As a rusult, I had to go to Seoul with my brother after work. = However, my parents were adamant, and I faced a lot of pushback when I tried to push back against their decision. As a result, I had to travel to Seoul with him right after my shift ended.
When I worked in my first company, I was so defensive. I think while taking a train to Seoul, I rubbed in him about his career. = Back when I worked at my first company, I was very defensive and stressed. I recall nagging and lecturing him about his career on the train ride to Seoul.
Looking back then, career is not import for us. It is just a tool to make money. I was so stupid. I often regret that = Looking back, a career is just a way to make money, and I regret being so harsh with him.
After he pass the exam in Seoul, it happed Covid-19 soon. His final job interview was cancelled. He's seen some rough years. = After he passed the written exam, COVID-19 hit, and his final interview was canceled. He went through a difficult time after that.
You don't to agree to be a hikicomori at home if your life's going great. To take him out, I persuaded that I tried to do my best. I tried to soothe him, but I also cursed at him severely in front of my paerents. = Nobody becomes a recluse at home if things are going well. I tried to help him and comfort him, though I also lost my temper and scolded him in front of our parents.
And then he chaged 3 times. He stayed at our hometown. He can make money alone. It is enough. He is not greedy as me. He is better than me. = Over time, he tried three different jobs and decided to stay in our hometown. Today, he makes his own money and supports himself. He is not greedy like I am, and he is a great person.
NOTE: Thinking about past sibling fights shows real growth, and seeing your brother build a stable life at home is a wonderful outcome. I pray that you find peace, too. |